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The AI executive coach: what it can and cannot be
Coaching is a relationship built on being known over time and being asked questions you would avoid. One of those is reproducible in software and the other is not.
Can AI replace an executive coach? Not on the parts that depend on a human relationship: accountability that costs something socially, reading what you are avoiding, and trust built over years. It can be available on demand, ask consistently uncomfortable questions, and remember every previous conversation precisely.
Worth separating what a coach does, because the answer differs by component.
Not reproducible
- Relational accountability. Telling a person you respect that you did not do the thing has a cost. Telling software has none, and the cost was doing most of the work.
- Reading avoidance. A good coach notices what you keep steering away from, often from how you say it rather than what you say.
- Earned trust. Years of confidentiality with a person who has seen you at your worst is not a feature.
Reproducible, sometimes better
- Availability. Tuesday at eleven, when the decision is in front of you rather than in three weeks.
- Consistency. The uncomfortable question gets asked every time, including on days when a human might read the room and let it go.
- Recall. Precise memory of every previous decision and assumption, without the reconstruction that human memory performs.
- Deliberate composition. A coach is whoever you found. A method set can be chosen for what your thinking lacks.
Software cannot make you feel accountable. It can make sure the question gets asked.
The framing that avoids disappointment
If you want to change how you operate, that is coaching and it needs a person. If you want the specific call in front of you worked properly, that is a different job, and it is the one a method can do at four in the afternoon on a Tuesday.
Five Peers editorial note. Sources named in the text.
Not coaching. The call in front of you, worked properly.
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